Be Selfless, Not Selfish

Otto the cat with a rose

A popular piece of manosphere/self-improvement/game advice goes something like this: “Do you want to know the secret to happiness, success and lots of sex? I will tell you! It’s so simple… be selfish. Be selfish, think of only yourself and your needs and you’ll get what you want.” Upon long reflection I think that this is […]

Game Played Me

Oklahoma tight end Blake Bell (10) comes up with turf stuck in his helmet during the second quarter of an NCAA college football game against Louisiana Tech in Norman, Okla., Saturday, Aug. 30, 2014. (AP Photo/Sue Ogrocki)

I’ve written about game for nearly three years since first discovering blogs related to pickup and other aspects of male-female interactions. Reflecting on the time I’ve invested in approaching women, going on dates and improving myself in various ways to increase my attractiveness to the opposite sex (thousands of hours in total), regrettably, I can’t […]

How Standing Desks Made Me Mighty


Hundreds of millions of people around the world spend most of their day sitting in an office and at home on a couch. The unhealthy effects of sitting for prolonged periods include poor circulation, obesity and cardiovascular disease. Engaging in vigorous exercise daily is highly beneficial, but it doesn’t seem to offset the negative impact. Periodically […]

Podcast #1: Overcoming Approach Anxiety


In my inaugural podcast I discuss approach anxiety and how I overcame it. I started by asking women indirect questions like asking for directions or when the metro stopped running. After this I went through several years of PUA-style game where I used routine-based approaches to meet women. Lately, inspired by what I’ve learned through […]

Meet Women Head On


In the past few weeks I’ve started to take a real hard and critical look at how I meet women. I wasn’t satisfied with the number and caliber of women that I was meeting and dating and decided I needed to make dramatic changes. Be a player not a pickup artist. Although I learned a […]

Apple Watch, a Cutting Edge Rejection Buffer?


The excitement for Cupertino’s latest product has been building and reviews of the Apple Watch are coming in. One of the writers whose opinion on tech I respect is John Gruber of Daring Fireball. Gruber’s take on the Apple Watch was interesting to me, and I appreciate the fact that he highlighted the device’s shortcomings as an […]